Heart-Mind, Grateful, and Peace

In this world, more people life means more opinion, definitely about "peace". Some people argue that peace is some kind about love, friends, and no war. But in my opinion, peace not just kind of that, not just when you fall in love, or when you feels comfortable with someone or some places. The meaning is more than that, because peace is... when you can be grateful of what you have now.

Like quote says "you never know what you have until you lose it". If you can't be grateful of what you have now, you never enjoy your life, you never feels comfort of anything around you. You always feels something in your mind isn't fulfill yet. And definitely you will pursue your ambition no matter what would happen at the next time. And when you reach your ambition, you will have another ambitions and also, another problems. It's like a cycle, and you'll trapped on that.

But there is one way to get out of that cycle, and that is... Be a grateful person. Be grateful of your abilities, be grateful of your agility, and be grateful of your things that you have. Many peoples out there can't feel what you feels, can't be able to do something what you can do, and can't have something what you have.
Even some peoples already lost all of what they have in the past.

But be a grateful person isn't like easy as we can pronounce in our mouth, it will be hard if we not start it with our heart and mind, yes, heart and mind is the key. With heart and mind, you can feels the positive energy flew in your blood and the positive energy will bring you to smile, happiness , and peace.

At the point, you have to use you heart and mind as a key, be grateful, and then you'll found what the real peace is.

"You didn't have to find peace in out there, because peace is always stay in your heart and your mind" 

-Unknown

Are You a Good Leader?

Everybody has his own opinion about "a good leader", and now i will share you about my opinion.

A good leader should had some characteristics.

First, a good leader should know his strength and his weakness. Whenever someone can't knowing their self in good, they can't do what should he/she have to do, they didn't know how the best way to fix a problem even their own problems. And usually, the people like that is always stay quite in the fear, fear of being wrong, it is like "i didn't know what i have to do, so i prefer to be quite rather than i wrong". That's no problem but.. You have to try even it just a little bit, like a song lyrics "if you never try, you'll never know" - fix you by coldplay. Haha i love that song.

Second, a good leader should be able to read a situation perfectly. In a situation, definitely there is problems (how big or small that, it depends on how someone can solve it). And just some special people can solve those problems, yeah and that is who can read the situation perfectly. Someone who can do that, he/she had a potential to become a good leader, they can see the best way to solve problems and know what he /she have to do. They can think clearly, give the best solution for all, and do what he/she says before with good when the others was panic. 

And the last, a good leader should know and be brave to take the consequences of what he or she do. Just like what i said, there are many problem in many situation. To think the consequences of what all we have done, its difficult. You should consider all of possibilities and the obstacles. Not even that, you must approximating the impact for short and long, for the others, and of course for your self. And the most important is you have to be brave to take the consequences. Well, brave in this context is positive ok.

At the point , we should knowing our self in good, our strength and weakness, can able to read a situation perfectly, and be brave to take the consequences of what we have done to be a good leader. 

"A leader is one who knows the way, goes the way, and shows the way" -John C.Maxwell